There are so many unspoken rules in Japan making it even more challenging for a foreigner to follow all of them. But let’s try to adapt.
As a foreigner, it’s crucial to observe carefully to understand the culture and the reasons behind people’s actions. For example, during my initial travels on the shinkansen, I would recline my seat to stretch out without a second thought, unaware that it could disturb someone. But this is wrong in Japan. You must politely let the person behind know that you want to adjust your seat. I was surprised. You don’t inconvenience others’ space in public transportation in Japan.
Another aspect of life in Japan as a foreigner is learning humility and modesty, even if I thought I already possessed them. It becomes even more intense if you learn the language, as levels of respect are embedded even in the way you speak. Initially, it troubled me a lot. I wondered, “Why so many formalities?” But yes, respect is at the core of interactions here. At first, it was troublesome for me because you must constantly ensure not to hurt others, even when expressing your true opinion.
I continue to explore the Japanese culture while remaining true to my values and identity.
